HOW TO HAVE AN EFFECTIVE CONVERSATION ?

10 RULES TO HAVE AN EFFECTIVE CONVERSATION?

Okay, let me ask a question to you guys, How many of you know at least one person that you avoid because you don't wanna talk to them. Maybe a lot of you!. So this world that we live in, In this world in which every conversation has the potential to develop into an argument. Even the most trivial issues someone fighting both passionately for it or against it. A really good conversation requires a balance between talking and listening. But somewhere along the way we just lost that balance. There is no reason to learn to show to pay attention when in fact you already are paying attention to it. So there are 10 best rules to have a better and peaceful conversation. Honestly saying if learn one of them and master it you really enjoyed having a good conversation.

1. DO NOT MULTITASK  

Be present at that moment in that conversation. Do not think about what your boss is saying or what you are having for food today. If you really wanna go out of the conversation just go out of the conversation

2. DO NOT PONTIFICATE

Please god! do not offend anyone in a conversation. It really gives a negative impact.

3. GO WITH THE FLOW

Stories and ideas will come to you, you just need to let them come and let them go. Do not even hesitate to speak.

4. USE OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS

Like how, when, where, how did it feel like?. So that the narrator or the speaker has to narrate the whole incident or he could go to the deep, which makes the bond stronger.

5. DO NOT FALSIFY

If you don't know anything just say you don't know. Do not pretend to be a falsifier.

6. DO NOT COMPARE

Do not ever equate their experience with yours. If someone says he lost his precious thing do not try saying that I lost my that thing too, If someone says he hates his job do not try saying that I also hate my job. This is really an offending conversation. Try to be more positive and not be judgemental.

7. TRY NOT TO REPEAT OR REPHRASE ANYTHING

8. STAY OUT OF THE DATES

People really don't care about knowing or learning dates. But what the really care about is you, your idea, your opinion and your perspective of life. So do not trap them in dates format.

9. DO LISTEN ( GOLDEN RULE )

Listening is really a good habit. A person who is a good listener is a good speaker also. Listening creates a bond between the guys who are talking and it deepens the bond by slowly. So do listen carefully.

10. JUST GO OUT AND TALK TO THE PEOPLE

What is life without talking, just go out and talk to the people try to learn new things and explain your perspective of life.